“Life has its own set of elemental principles,that surrounds and questions us about our own set of principles.”
On the basis of psychological studies,a human mind is said to act differently in different stages with the same kind of encounters met earlier. This is an interesting concept as why an individual would act differently to a similar situation during different stages of life.
Maybe because life is always playing clever tricks to confuse us against our own set of ethics of dealing life and treating ourselves to get the final outcome of what we truly believe in.
It’s almost like,when one prefers having limited known Facebook friends but changes the opinion of adding more friends be it unknown after encountering 300 likes on another friend’s profile picture. So this is where one is judging oneself on the basis of materialism, it’s also about promising not to have pastries after the sight of a bloated belly but the perception immediately changes when a family member keeps the cake box in front of the person.
No matter what we follow,believe in and promise to,the vibes around will always make us question about our faith,probity and dignity against the thesis of life we follow.The vibes will go on testing our principles till a situation occurs where we would stick to what we adhere to, but in the meantime it will also reveal the morality of the subject.
And this is the reason why an individual acts divergent all the time,because we all are confused between “what we carry inside” and “what we believe in”,thus evincing what makes us different.
The solution lies not in “self-control” but “losing self-control ” in order to let go off everything and feel the bits of subconsciousness to the goals of recognizing true self and the principles one can truly follow.