The above picture is a quote that caught my eyes recently while surfing the internet. At first,the thought felt fine but when the number of comments and likes the quote gathered struck me, I was pretty disappointed.
The quote tells the world on how a girl should not think of being beautiful, rather be anything else as because apparently “THEY” have said on how girls should become beautiful and outlook it as the topmost priority.
That the way our society has evolved,people still try their last effort to acquire a physical beauty. Be it for their own self,partner or children. They seem not to release the arrow towards the board of physicality and reach something beyond it. I agree it to my last breath.
And the number of people in favour of the quote made me realise that there are so many souls that might have been a victim of such behaviour or whatever they do,they might have been ending up on these norms of corporeality. That is heart breaking.
I truly feel lost and shattered on how our lives are being filled up with wrong notions that are celebrated by people who just see the world on a materialistic assumption.
And this is causing massive discouragement to people who truly are beautiful inside and outside but unexposed to the actuality of life and its true awards.
But just because some other people have set such boundaries, doesn’t mean that only these people exist. There are people,people who don’t think the same.I assure you. And I am one of them who visions the world of people beyond what their physical nature commutes.
You see,Being beautiful or owning something beautiful is a wonderful thing.
The dissension only lies when the aspect of it dominates wholly and solely on just a certain perception.
Just because someone else sneezes, doesn’t mean you too have to catch cold and sneeze along.
Being able to feel the writer’s emotion and the urge on how she wants to expel her grudge which she kept for long is something not less than any massive struggle.
The biggest struggle a human faces is what they feel inside, a war to fight of some conclusions they’ve gathered from the thoughts of other people about themselves.
One needs to see everything in a diverse way and believe me, such things are not to be institutionalised as these are something which rounds up naturally for a human through the senses of observing and understanding.
Anything that your mind finds a bit more pleasurable than the average by the means of its five senses, is related to the terminology of “BEAUTIFUL”, which simply means that it is an element of “being ecstatic and pleased”
“What we feel through the means of experiencing from the time we are able to touch our senses, we as humans have always been inclined towards anything that feels good within.“
And this proves too in the above quote by the writer,where every quality which has been described has an element of beauty or pleasantness.
Beautiful is a term that you should not run away from, if it doesn’t satisfy someone else’s opinion just because you don’t possess such a quality in that field.
Instead embrace and use your qualities that like an intense highlighter on your cheeks!
See it in a way when you’re off to a vacation,so many and such delightful places.
But you might have one favourite place amongst the rest which may not be a very likeable place for another.
So,search for your own favourite places in your entirety rather make other’s favourites your own.
Make your own standards.
Let’s admit a fact that the world will be a hypocrite embodiment of minds when as per their needs they would be favourable or unfavourable towards anything.
So,the meaning matters not the concept.
It’s hard. Hard to abide and absorb something that requires bravery and acceptance. It’s hard for me too! even if I write like it’s all easy. But supporting each other is just like this,I would make it sound it all easy even if it’s not. The difference being only that I would try to indulge you into the correctness of the matter rather let you abandon it just because others shaped it wrong.
Comparisons will always stay and the more one has,the more they will brag or look down on others. But at the end, life is all about how you choose to fire up your crackers and celebrate your creation whichever way it is.
Because every individual is differently beautiful whose comparison none will have.
Be an everyday cause of Beautiful.