“Mistakes or being callous makes a scope for re-evaluation.”
Mistakes and Sins are not the same,the depth of them matters.
Sins are unacceptable and are of a grievous aspect.
But,mistakes occur mainly because of our own lack of awareness, which leads to a callous effect on the self and others.
The reason does not matter but it’s elimination and the takeaway you receive from it.
Everything reprises of a meaning,even if there’s something called No reason,know that it does. Everything happens for a reason,if you find it then know that’s great for you.
So, I availed a bus after my tuition to reach home,a typical problem with the bus conductors are that you have to constantly remind them of the place that you are supposed to get down to, which they don’t realize even after you stand right on the brink of the bus staircase and the swooping road(waiting for the conductor to coordinate his string bell with the driver).
And today,yet again I had to do the same but as the bus slowed down while I thought it would stop,it instead started moving forward as the signal had turned green, so in order to not go any further I jumped right from the staircase to get down.
The hell it was so stupid of me to do so, the scene was very embarrassing where me being a neophyte tries to do a stunt of the expert clan,Fails and struggles from falling on the road while the confused heads from the bus looks on and when suddenly out of nowhere I start running towards the crossing (while I had nothing to catch)an excuse to run away from the stupidity and embarrassment I created for me.
Most of the times I would fuss about these kind of situations for a whole day but instead what bloomed in my head,was a fact to learn something from the action I acted from an injudicious mind. An issue where I had forgotten about my safety.
What I want to say is, generally we perceive a MISTAKE to be an offence towards our personality,others or the subject. Which it is.
Such a case can invite embarrassment,regret,tension,self-doubt,confusion,failure and many more.
But we can always mend things for the better if we are willing to and build a barrier for hindering its occurrence. Making it a habit to vision mistakes as the search ground for a learning scope could naturally shape our minds to abolish the colonization of negative thoughts and callous behaviour to head towards growing our qualities and self-knowledge extents rather than set in the heaviness of affliction.
All we have to do is focus on the area of our mistake.
If you become aware of your action then whether or not you shall repeat it will be determined on its own.
Only when you learn that you did something wrong,it being realized is the ladder which would direct you towards a better knowledge about yourself which in turn would chalk out ways to end the wrong.Take your time because adopting something forcefully would not be helpful but accepting and looking forward to working it would escalate your outlook rather than bestow you with negative emotions.
It’s worth appreciating how we get these unlimited possibilities to learn not just from our mistakes but from the experience we garner.
Making mistakes and learning from it, is An insight towards self-enhancement itself.
Mistakes are wrong only when one continues the legacy but when there is a chance to rectify then why do you want to carry the heavy burden of guilt everywhere?
Don’t let yourself get doomed in that sorrow.
〉If you wish to heal a wound then you got to apply an ointment for cooling it,don’t think about the consequences or the level of success.〈
If you feel sorry for your mistake from within then go and undo your mistake.
If you think you could learn something from your callousness then dig deep and search for it,the “ON” button belongs to your finger.
If we constitute of a learning approach then breaking barriers to be a smooth ride for laborious roads won’t take too long.